Mouth Hugs - WINK WINK

**WARNING THIS WEEKS BLOG HAVE EXPLICT PICTURES. PLEASE VIEW IN PRIVATE! NSFW!**

If you have not understood the title of this blog I will explain. Ever since I performed my first blow job waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back when. I always cringed at the name. I am a major ubergeek and thus I have a very logical thinking pattern. So when I hear blow job I know what it is and know what it means it just doesn't make logical sense in my head. Blow job?! You don't blow.. okay well sometimes for a game changer ... but in all actuality you don't blow you suck. But suck job sounds horrible. It sounds like you totally suck at what you do, which is the point of a blow job, which is contrary to the name, but you don't blow you suck, wait, huh?

Welcome to my mind!

So instead of calling it blow jobs I much rather call it Mouth Hugs. So from this day forward I proclaim this to be .... 

So sayeth the blogger... so It shall be done! Okay well for this blog at least. 

Soooooo Mouth Hugs!

I know guys... about time I blog about something interesting for you huh?

As always we need to study the anatomy of the penis and all its lovely parts...

We have covered the science of sex so we know all about arousal right? Right. But as far as the physicalities of a boner.... Side bar.. Interesting fact.. did you know that the original term "boner" may have come from the fact that primates, of which creationists believe we were evolved from, have an actual BONE in their penis called a Baculum and even women have one in their clitoris! But I digress. We do not have an actual bone in our penis or clitoris but we do have lots and lots of nerve endings and in men there is the Corpus Cavernosa which is the spongy tissue that fills with blood upon arousal and then.....

Boing!!!

I have done some quite extensive research in this matter from men who were cut to uncut and I have come to one unanimous conclusion when asking men what they like about getting a mouth hug they said EVERY DAY!

First and foremost I would like to address the controversy that seems to stem from whether or not cut vs. uncut men have better orgasms from their foreskin by saying it is still inconclusive. Each person is different. It is true that the foreskin alone has approximately 20,000 erotogenic nerve endings.

Yes I know! If I had known that when my sons were born I would have told them not to cut it! Sorry boys :(

But I also know that when performing fellatio on an uncut man he seems to be more aroused when the skin is pulled back and the head is addressed directly. Either way most men who are uncut have dealt with this all their lives so they know how to keep it clean and if they want a mouth hug from their partner best keep it that way... unless of course into that kind of thing.

Good hygiene and manscaping is always a  great idea when wanting to get a mouth hug from your partner. Heck if you want to spice things up have your partner wash you up before the festivities. 

I am pretty sure we all know what a mouth hug in details so I will be just giving tips and different variations that I have encountered over the years. If you have any further specific questions please feel free to email me at info@foryoursexformation.com

The good old standby I call fisting for nice girls. 

This is when you use one hand to hold the base of the penis, and let saliva pool in your mouth. Make a loose fist with your other hand and slide it up and down the penis, closing it when you reach the head. Get the hand motion right first, then add your mouth, letting your hand act as an extension of it. Create a snug vacuum (but don't suck), then slide up and down, your hand following your mouth. If you're not the most coordinated person, hold your hand still at the base of the penis and simply move your mouth up and down.

The next I call the Bowchickawowow

Love it or hate it, men are visual. All men. Gay, Straight or Bi.  It is a fact of life. This is why they are so fond of porn. They also like the fact that it is over exaggerated.  So why not add an erotic flair to your repertoire. Give him a mouth hug when he least expects it. While you're doing it reach up and tweak his nipples while maintaining eye contact. Heck throw a little cheap mascara on and gag a bit on his cock making that horrible sound. *Little know fact...most men like that little gag... it makes them feel like they have the biggest cock in the world. This causes the eyes to water and the mascara to run giving it that dramatic look that porn seems to be portraying these days. 

This next one is called Don't forget the Boys.

The greatest compliment you can give him is looking like you want to down in that area. And one of the best ways to demonstrate this is to explore all of it. Take one or both testicles in your mouth, hum lightly, suck gently and swirl your tongue around them. Tug lightly on the sac while doing any of the following above. If your adventures lick the peritoneum or the taint area and if you're REALLY adventurous try giving him a rim job. Not sure if that is something you may like the taste of? Try a piece of plastic wrap and your favorite lube licking his ass is a total bond of trust.

So now that you have decided on which strategy you're going to use in order to please your man. He is close and ready to ejaculate now what? FINISH THE JOB... Ladies have you ever been so close and didn't want your partner to stop whatever it was they were doing and your partner does stop for whatever reason...

They then realize how close you are and reach for a toy or reach down and stimulate you with your hand to help you get there. It just ISN'T the same though...you knew if they didn't stop it would have been FANTASTIC!

THAT is exactly what happens when your giving a mouth hug and you realize he is about to cum in your mouth and you pull your mouth off to finish him with your hand or have him finish himself off with his own hand. Secretly they are thinking...

So for the love of all that is right and good in the world please let him do his thing. It will greatly be appreciated and returned. If you don't like the texture, taste or smell you don't have to swallow it. But they do make oral heighteners and masking strips for these types of things that I even carry and you can get from me for a discount just for reading my blog. 

Men if you have a pretty good indication that you may be getting a mouth hug try these tips within a 24 hour period. Do not smoke or drink alcohol this gives semen a bitter taste. Eating red meats, asparagus, broccoli, spinach and some vitamins will give secretions a sharp or salty taste along with dairy products so try to avoid these as well. Eating parsley, wheatgrass and celery will give semen a more mild flavor, these are high in chlorophyll and will even make it sweeter. As will spicing foods such as cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemons. And lots and lots of fruits especially pineapple, papaya, cranberry, melons, mangos, apples and grapes. 

And don't worry if you're on a diet and you do like to send him over the top and swallow. The average ejaculate is about 4ccs of liquid and consists of less than 36 calories. So anyone who is using a calorie counter can put that in your recipe book. 

Make sure you take the poll this week and hopefully I will have a much better computer and internet connection so that I can do the radio show next week. Remember to let me know what you want to order from my website (found on the side) and I will make sure you get your discount for being a blog reader. 

MMMMMM was it good for you? Let me know at info@foryoursexformation.com or visit my website at foryoursexformation.com.

Who said Girls have all the fun!

I know... last week I talked extensively about multiple consecutive orgasms for women as pointed out to me from this email ...

Dear Nikki,
You think you said Multiple Consecutive Orgasms enough times in one paragraph in your last blog entry? I mean I wasn't offended. As a guy I would love nothing more then to get my partner off over and over again. But come on!!!
Other then that enjoy reading your blog entries keep up the good work.
Reggie

Well thank you Reggie I try my best and your right. Once I get on a roll about Multiple Consecutive Orgasms it is hard for me not to think about Multiple Consec... okay sorry I get it. Stopping now. So I decided to talk all about guys this blog topic.

Let's talk about the Male G-Spot shall we?

Oh quit being a little girl!

What I am talking about here folks is what some men really don't like to talk about. That is their Prostate Gland. Located in between their rectum and testis just below the clinical term called the peritoneum or as men call it in slang "the taint".  And "why" you may ask do they not like to talk about it? Because of it's actual location. To REALLY massage it well some men have hangs ups about it. Because of societies ignorance, in my opinion, some men (especially straight men) think if anything remotely goes near their ass much let touches their anus they think they will be labeled gay or thought less of as a man. 

Trust me on this.. I have done enough research, polls and spoke with a lot of male friends who know they can speak openly enough to me and not be judged to let me know this is truly how they feel society will judge them. And what a sad sad world we live in for these men to miss out on what I can only imagine a wonderful experience.

As we learned in the previous blog about the whole science of sex we know what happens when a male has an orgasm. But what exactly does the prostate do?  The prostate makes a fluid that activates sperm as they are being ejaculated. So it has a pretty important job. Along with that job comes LOTS AND LOTS of nerve endings. Just like a woman's Grafenberg spot or G-spot. Thus the reason to call it a male G-spot. Now like a woman's G-spot we know it is all elusive and some women don't even know where their own is located much less telling their partner where it is. With men it isn't so hard. It is a small chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward and down towards the testis. Now I know from personal experience when I have a G-spot orgasm that is usually when I have that mind blowing, spectacular Multi... opps sorry almost drifted of there ....

I know.. I know... sorry Reggie

But you see where I'm going with this. If our G-spot orgasms are that amazing why can't it be just that amazing for men? And ya know what? I have actually talked to men who were not afraid to be labled and have done it and agreed with me that yes... yes indeed it is that amazing!

So when your ready and are comfortable with a partner I will give you a few tips that will help you ease into this a bit.... 

Just Kidding guys ... Just kidding! Geez Calm down!!!

Okay Okay I get it!

I'm not talking about having your partner strap one on and go to town I am talking about first learning your body. Just because a G-spot on a guy is easier to find then a woman doesn't mean we are all the same. As I said in my previous blog the biggest sex organ in the body is your brain. It all starts with arousal. Trust. Communication. Start with just massaging the "taint" area with some lube while you kiss and explore. Massage it, put a little pressure on it. If he starts to moan... well it's okay to like it. Maybe just start with that then move up to massaging just outside the anus along with the "taint" next time. This will help him to become more relaxed and more receptive to the idea. Remember before you decide to let your partner explore internally there are a couple of things you may want to do. The minimum preparation is a regular bowel movement followed by a complete external cleansing. You may even want to use some liquid soap and cleanse just inside a bit and rinse thoroughly. We will only be exploring a couple of inches in.. not a deep sea diving expedition.

If you are really feeling self conscience about it you can rinse internally but most experts do not suggest anything over a disposable bulb enema with plain warm water. Insert and gently squeeze allowing the water to rinse out. Repeat several times, or until the water runs clear. Never ever ever use hot or cold water.. your gonna want to be Goldilocks on this one and be JUUUUUUST right. About wrist temperature will be fine. You are not going to want to do anything larger then a bulb. Anything bigger can constitute a colonic and you don't want that before someone starts inserting things in there with all that cramping and blotting. If that is truly the route you want to go seek a professional. After that is done make sure you have your lube available. I suggest the silicone lube, Make sure you have latex or vinyl gloves or if your partner decides to "ride you bareback" sort of speak make sure their nails are trimmed, you don't want to have a hang nail and have it rip some tissue while in there. Once your comfortable have them again massage the "taint" area then press gently on the anus with your lubricated finger. Once they have their "one" finger in locate the Prostate about 2 inches in from the entrance of the anus. Once located tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't. Take your time.. do it slow and easy... let the body accept the finger. Later as you become more comfortable you can try a couple of beads or plugs. Which of course can be purchased at my website.

Once you find someone you trust and can relax with it won't be so difficult and who knows you just may find out you like it!

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