I could not begin to disagree with any of the lyrics to that song. A kiss in my opinion can be the most sensual and alluring part of any relationship.
Now how women and men look at it are from two different lines of thinking but not always the case.
A survey of 1,041 college students puts science behind the assumption. Women described kissing as a way to start a relationship and keep it going strong. They see kissing as personal and a way of showing affection outside of sex. Men however, were more likely to see kissing as a prelude to sex. Quite understandably, it can lead to sexual activity, but it should not be expected. What I am trying to educate the masses about in this instance is, Women this doesn't mean you need to tease and then not deliver. And Men you need to learn to kiss a person, without expecting anything further to develop.
With that being said lets move on to the do's and dont's that make this subject matter lip smackingly good.
- First off, stay hydrated. A shortage of fluids can lead to dry mouth which causes bad breath.
Speaking of which, if you eat garlic or onions or any of those other quintessential foods that make your breath like that please make sure your partner has as well. All the mints, teeth and tongue brushing will not help. Unless you have other suggestions please leave them below. I love those foods!
- Know your partner. Kissing is like dancing not everyone is great together. There are different styles and not everyone likes that kind of style. So keep that in mind when you're kissing someone for the first time.
- Read your partner. Kissing for the first time? Or getting to know your new partner? Start out soft. No tongue. Your mouth is not a jack-in-the-box. Ergo, every time you open it, your tongue should not automatically pop out. Become attuned to your partner's needs. Are they responsive? Aggressive? Are they hungry for more or less. How long should I kiss? All of those questions can be answered if you just take the time to read your partners body language and needs. They will be there like a book just waiting to be read.
-Marathon kissing. If you are kissing for a short period of time by all means hold your breath but if you plan on kissing any longer than that you need to breathe. Breathe casually and carefully. You don't want to be giving CPR to your partner. If you are not a nose breather try stopping and nibbling and kissing their neck to catch your breath before returning.
-Tingle it up. There are several different lip balms on the market including some that have taste and menthol in them. This will tingle things up for your passionate kiss.
- Swallow. If you are kissing for any period of time or if you decided to put a butt load of mints in your mouth before kissing someone you need to swallow. Extra salivia isn't always great in a kiss. Especially if you are a tongue kisser. The last thing you need is to be slinging spit all over the place.
-Use your hands. The use of hands is essential when kissing well. But again requires a little bit of knowledge about your partner. If it is your first time kissing them, you need to be careful. Never assume that because someone accepts a kiss from you, they are giving the green light to touch them more sexually. But touching the face is always a safe place to start and super sexy.
See what I mean?
-Eyes wide shut. No peeking. Kissing with your eyes open is just creepy. Not to mention it makes your partner self conscious. But then again how does your partner know you have your eyes open if they themselves don't have theirs open.... you see the quandary. Just close them and keep closed.
All in all please always remember, a kiss is both a gift and thank you. It is one of the few true delights left in our modern rushed society. There is little doubt we'd all be better off if there were more kissing going on. Now, good luck and get busy, someone is probably right this minute waiting for you to kiss them.
MMMMMMMM was it good for you? Let me know by commenting below or emailing me at info@foryoursexformation.com
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