Bedroom Tips - Missing something?! I think I found it!

If you have been together for a while, bedrooms can end up becoming quite boring and predictable. 

I have tried to give you something to work with and tips in previous blogs but if all that has not got the creative juices flowing I suppose I can put together some more ideas. If you really want to keep the excitement and anticipation alive, you need to create new experiences. I have always said and will to this day that seduction is a lost art. And in my opinion is really what is missing in intimacy between partners today. 

The first few weeks of a new relationship are always unique and exciting. And the only reason why it’s so fascinatingly exciting is because of the unpredictability in the relationship. Both of you are still learning about other, and every single thing both of you do together is an experience that’s unique.

Once you start getting comfortable with each other and share a lot of experiences with your partner things start to slow down in the uniqueness department. This doesn't mean it has to be boring. 

So todays blog we are going to talk about tips and trick to get those creative love juices flowing.

#1 Change of scenery 

When partners get in a rut, especially when you have others in the household and can not get your loving on in any room in the house try laying a blanket on the floor. Nothing is more annoying than trying to get sexy in bed and having "room" problems... "Honey, could you move over to your left a little bit your elbow is in my face". With the floor you have a nice solid area to move about and get your groove on. You can both roll around and your partner can place you where they want you without fear of falling off the bed. Place a few "out of range" lit candles and you have just become one Sexy Mutha F---SHUT YOUR MOUTH! 

#2 Set the mood
Since men are visual why not trying popping in a compromise other than just porn. Pop in your favorite seductive movie! My personal favorite is 9 1/2 weeks. If you have not seen this movie it has that literary piece of crap 50 Shades of Gray beat by millions of miles!!! But whatever you both find totally erotic pop it in. The key is for you both though. Play out scenes from the movie if you can. Insert your own names from the story line. 


#3 Mood Music

You have a favorite song? You know... one you hear and you just want to get up and start dancing all sexy n' stuff? You hear the lyrics and the beat sometimes the voice and start to get moist in the pants? Oh yeah baby right there. Whether it is Barry White, Erotic City, R & B, Alternative or who knows maybe even some country cue it up and get your groove back. It doesn't have to be all about Stella getting her groove back either, Stan can too. Make a mixed playlist of all your favorites and get busy!

#4 Tired of Oral? Try Rubbing!

Grab the tarp and the baby oil because we are gonna get messy. Noooo you don't have to do all of that. Erotic Massage does not have to be all that messy and frankly being a professional Masseuse is not required either. The reason Masseuse use oil is because the aromatic effect which is nice to use for that purpose but I'm a practical type of girl and I don't want my sheets all stained up from oil so why not try using a water based lube. It works just as well and doesn't leave stains. Get your partner in the mood especially her. The more relaxed you make her the quicker she is going to release. 


#5 Babes in toy land!

I've said it before and I will till I die. Every bedroom need 5 staple products Heightener, Lube, Sex toy for her, Sex toy for partners and Toy Cleaner. We all like to be happy and release during sex. Toys can and should be a part of every bedroom as a great option. Whether you use it in your erotic massage session or use it on him during a mouth hug or her to get her off any of these scenrios plus many more area all great reasons to have them "handy" and on hand. 
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#6 Lingerie
I know this is not really a topic for men. That is of course unless they want to dress up as well. Some do. Silk feels mighty pretty on any part of your body. But what I am talking about is ladies. Ladies, lets dish. Thigh highs and garters, corsets and heels... No matter what your size ALWAYS looks sexy! And guess what? You feel sexy as well! And if you look Marvelous you feeeeel Marvelous.


#7 Say Cheese!

The wonderful thing about smart phones these days is they have video and cameras on them! Take a few pics or videos of yourself and send them to your partner throughout the day. Or better yet take pictures or video when you're together. There is a naughty type of taboo element to it not to mention it is just plain hot!


#8 Switch!!!
Tired of the old routine? Why not switch it up a bit. Is your partner usually the dominate one? Why not tie your partner up and blindfold them. Not sure what to do? First and foremost "safety" first. Meaning a safety word or gesture.. something totally rando like "blueberry pancake" <inside joke. Try a little spanking and biting. Dirty talk while your doing it... not sure how to start? Just say what you're doing? Ask if they like it. "MMM I'm going to nibble on the nipple... you like that?" Use a feather or lightly touch them. While being blindfolded that is going to heighten their sense of touch a bit. 






#9 Snack time
Grab some strawberries and melted chocolate or better yet get yourself some edible body paint. Go to town on each other! The best part? Licking it off! Make a game of it! Make body sundaes heck who cares. Sex and food should go hand and hand... it is the wonderful world of taste and some sexy licking should go along with it. 



#10 Splish Splash
After some sexy snack time why not jump in the shower together and play out a sexy shower fantasy. Clean each other and grab the silicone based lube and have some awesome shower sex.  

I hope some of these ideas have helped spark some things in your mind. In the meantime take the poll on the side and visit my website. Remember blog readers let me know what it is what you would like to purchase and I will give you 10% off your order. 

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