Mouth Hugs - WINK WINK

**WARNING THIS WEEKS BLOG HAVE EXPLICT PICTURES. PLEASE VIEW IN PRIVATE! NSFW!**

If you have not understood the title of this blog I will explain. Ever since I performed my first blow job waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back when. I always cringed at the name. I am a major ubergeek and thus I have a very logical thinking pattern. So when I hear blow job I know what it is and know what it means it just doesn't make logical sense in my head. Blow job?! You don't blow.. okay well sometimes for a game changer ... but in all actuality you don't blow you suck. But suck job sounds horrible. It sounds like you totally suck at what you do, which is the point of a blow job, which is contrary to the name, but you don't blow you suck, wait, huh?

Welcome to my mind!

So instead of calling it blow jobs I much rather call it Mouth Hugs. So from this day forward I proclaim this to be .... 

So sayeth the blogger... so It shall be done! Okay well for this blog at least. 

Soooooo Mouth Hugs!

I know guys... about time I blog about something interesting for you huh?

As always we need to study the anatomy of the penis and all its lovely parts...

We have covered the science of sex so we know all about arousal right? Right. But as far as the physicalities of a boner.... Side bar.. Interesting fact.. did you know that the original term "boner" may have come from the fact that primates, of which creationists believe we were evolved from, have an actual BONE in their penis called a Baculum and even women have one in their clitoris! But I digress. We do not have an actual bone in our penis or clitoris but we do have lots and lots of nerve endings and in men there is the Corpus Cavernosa which is the spongy tissue that fills with blood upon arousal and then.....

Boing!!!

I have done some quite extensive research in this matter from men who were cut to uncut and I have come to one unanimous conclusion when asking men what they like about getting a mouth hug they said EVERY DAY!

First and foremost I would like to address the controversy that seems to stem from whether or not cut vs. uncut men have better orgasms from their foreskin by saying it is still inconclusive. Each person is different. It is true that the foreskin alone has approximately 20,000 erotogenic nerve endings.

Yes I know! If I had known that when my sons were born I would have told them not to cut it! Sorry boys :(

But I also know that when performing fellatio on an uncut man he seems to be more aroused when the skin is pulled back and the head is addressed directly. Either way most men who are uncut have dealt with this all their lives so they know how to keep it clean and if they want a mouth hug from their partner best keep it that way... unless of course into that kind of thing.

Good hygiene and manscaping is always a  great idea when wanting to get a mouth hug from your partner. Heck if you want to spice things up have your partner wash you up before the festivities. 

I am pretty sure we all know what a mouth hug in details so I will be just giving tips and different variations that I have encountered over the years. If you have any further specific questions please feel free to email me at info@foryoursexformation.com

The good old standby I call fisting for nice girls. 

This is when you use one hand to hold the base of the penis, and let saliva pool in your mouth. Make a loose fist with your other hand and slide it up and down the penis, closing it when you reach the head. Get the hand motion right first, then add your mouth, letting your hand act as an extension of it. Create a snug vacuum (but don't suck), then slide up and down, your hand following your mouth. If you're not the most coordinated person, hold your hand still at the base of the penis and simply move your mouth up and down.

The next I call the Bowchickawowow

Love it or hate it, men are visual. All men. Gay, Straight or Bi.  It is a fact of life. This is why they are so fond of porn. They also like the fact that it is over exaggerated.  So why not add an erotic flair to your repertoire. Give him a mouth hug when he least expects it. While you're doing it reach up and tweak his nipples while maintaining eye contact. Heck throw a little cheap mascara on and gag a bit on his cock making that horrible sound. *Little know fact...most men like that little gag... it makes them feel like they have the biggest cock in the world. This causes the eyes to water and the mascara to run giving it that dramatic look that porn seems to be portraying these days. 

This next one is called Don't forget the Boys.

The greatest compliment you can give him is looking like you want to down in that area. And one of the best ways to demonstrate this is to explore all of it. Take one or both testicles in your mouth, hum lightly, suck gently and swirl your tongue around them. Tug lightly on the sac while doing any of the following above. If your adventures lick the peritoneum or the taint area and if you're REALLY adventurous try giving him a rim job. Not sure if that is something you may like the taste of? Try a piece of plastic wrap and your favorite lube licking his ass is a total bond of trust.

So now that you have decided on which strategy you're going to use in order to please your man. He is close and ready to ejaculate now what? FINISH THE JOB... Ladies have you ever been so close and didn't want your partner to stop whatever it was they were doing and your partner does stop for whatever reason...

They then realize how close you are and reach for a toy or reach down and stimulate you with your hand to help you get there. It just ISN'T the same though...you knew if they didn't stop it would have been FANTASTIC!

THAT is exactly what happens when your giving a mouth hug and you realize he is about to cum in your mouth and you pull your mouth off to finish him with your hand or have him finish himself off with his own hand. Secretly they are thinking...

So for the love of all that is right and good in the world please let him do his thing. It will greatly be appreciated and returned. If you don't like the texture, taste or smell you don't have to swallow it. But they do make oral heighteners and masking strips for these types of things that I even carry and you can get from me for a discount just for reading my blog. 

Men if you have a pretty good indication that you may be getting a mouth hug try these tips within a 24 hour period. Do not smoke or drink alcohol this gives semen a bitter taste. Eating red meats, asparagus, broccoli, spinach and some vitamins will give secretions a sharp or salty taste along with dairy products so try to avoid these as well. Eating parsley, wheatgrass and celery will give semen a more mild flavor, these are high in chlorophyll and will even make it sweeter. As will spicing foods such as cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemons. And lots and lots of fruits especially pineapple, papaya, cranberry, melons, mangos, apples and grapes. 

And don't worry if you're on a diet and you do like to send him over the top and swallow. The average ejaculate is about 4ccs of liquid and consists of less than 36 calories. So anyone who is using a calorie counter can put that in your recipe book. 

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Eat her like a Lady!

No I didn't mistype the title. I meant exactly what I typed. Today we are going to do a public service announcement on how to make a woman melt and bend to your every whim because we are going to get up close and personal with the Vagina and finally lick this issue. Pun intended.

Now calm down ladies we must understand that most men, or at least most that I have dated, don't have one of these so in all fairness they do not really know what is going on down there. And as we discussed earlier faking it because you are bored isn't going to to teach them either. 

A partner who knows how to orally treat a woman is like discovering the lost city of Atlantis which according to Google map is not all that difficult.... see? There it is!

Hmmm I wonder... Google! Find me a man who know how to give oral on a woman!

Searching...

Still searching........

That is what I thought... Figures...

Anyhoodle... Lets see if we can change that mentality shall we?

To understand how to eat her like she has never been eaten before we have to first understand what exactly it is we are dealing with here. 

The anatomy of the Vagina or at least the parts we are going to focus on really are not all that difficult to locate. Contrary to popular belief they are all located in the same generalized area on every woman.

You have a Clitoris, clitoral legs, urethra, labia majora, labia minora, perineum, anus and the G-spot. 

All pretty basic right? Wait what.. clitoral legs? WTH is that?

Awww threw something at you that you didn't know right?! Even some of you ladies may not even know this. You see the Clitoris is more than just what you can see when you lift that hood. There is a whole group of nerves that go on each side of the Urethra under your labia minora and majora on each side kinda like a wishbone.

This is why it feels so good when you use a vibrator or your pulsating shower head on the outside of your labia. you are massaging these nerves that run down them. A ladies clitoris and legs hold over 8,000 nerve endings and is geared for one thing and one thing only HER PLEASURE

All of this is however just a warm up to the finale of course. What am I talking about? I am talking about making her squirt. Don't think she can? Think again. It really isn't all that hard. It all starts and ends with her G - spot. After arousing her and tickling her with your magic skills of licking her clit and all areas of the labia.. massaging her and getting the blood really flowing you are going to insert a finger or two about one to three inches into her vaginal opening.  And just as I said in the G-spot for men blog make sure your nails are cut and filed. That tissue is like velvet in there and will rip and cause some pain if you don't. And you don't have to pump and push it like the well is going dry either. There should be no sense of urgency... Timmie ain't at the bottom of that well.. no need for Lassie.

 Slow and steady wins a race. Yes we have the 'rabbit' but unless you have beads in your finger and can make it vibrate without pumping and moving it your finger better be a 'turtle'. Also hygiene of the hands and fingernails VERY important! The ph balance in there is trickier then trying to get an aquarium just right so you don't kill all the fish. If you go searching in there please make sure your hands are clean.

Once at about the right spot use a come hither movement with your finger in a generalized area.

Once you do this you are going to feel something start to grow. That's right the reason you can not find the G-spot is because it is flush to the vaginal wall and until you start stimulating it it will not come out. It is the peek-a-boo of all sexual organs.

Once you stimulate it though it is going to pop out like a thanksgiving turkey pop out timer! It will however have more of a texture of a Prune or Walnut that is how you know you have found it! Now that you have found it start stroking it with that come hither motion. Now you may want to try direct pressure or if you are using two fingers you may want to try stroking on both sides of it as well. The key is watch your partner.  At this point she may scream for you to stop or she is going to pee herself..especially if it is her first time.. but don't you dare! This is not pee that is going to shoot out this is a great deal of female ejaculate fluid that is ready to come out of there. Tell her not to hold back.. to push it out and before you know it..

Yeah I'm telling ya... it is a lot when it first happens. You had best be in a shower or have LOTS of plastic sheets on your bed...and floor.. and anything that is past your bed. Hell just think pretend you're at a Gallagher concert because that is what will happen when she pushes it out of there.

I promise if you do this for your partner she will make you one happy partner for life. 

There isn't a lot of don'ts down there as far as eating her. Men just think of the clitoris like the head of your cock because in essence that is all it really is.. so don't gnaw on it like a rawhide chew bone. And PARTNERS MEN AND WOMEN if you drink beer and start feeling frisky BRUSH THOSE TEETH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY THE TONGUE before going down on her! Beer has yeast...yeast grows in dark moist places... your mouth is dark and moist SO IS YOUR VAGINA.. well if you're doing it right it is. Nothing is more annoying than having the yeastie beasties!

Now this is for the ladies. If you want your partner to pack a lunch and stay for the day I have one word for you .... HYGIENE. If you don't shave at least cut back a little bit. Women of a fuller figure (of which I am one) make sure you clean and powder in those areas where skin touches skin. This way there is no question as to smells. That is the number one complaint statistically speaking why people don't like to do it... it isn't the taste in fact 78% of people don't mind the taste at all it is the smell of body odor. 

Remember to take the poll over to the left and listen to my blogtalk radio program every Sunday night at 9:00 pm est at blogtalk radio. Also if you would would like to place an order for anything on my website, Link also to the left under My Pure Pleasure, place your order with me and get 10% off your entire order for my blog readers :) Just email me at info@foryoursexformation.com or you can text or call at 571-969-SEX1 . And remember I do in home parties as well in the NOVA and 3 hours out radias. 

Boot Camp for your LOVE muscle!

Hurry Hurry! Step right up! I have the be all and end all of magic potions! All 100% Natural Remedies that will make men last longer in bed and women tighter and more virgin like! 

You see it advertised EVERYWHERE now a days. A magic cream or pill to make your stamina longer or your virgin like qualities appear more virgin like. Uh huh and if you believe that I have beachfront property in Arizona I would like to sell to you.

I do however have an alternative that is not only proven to work... but costs you nothing. Unless of course you want to get more advanced and add some weights to your training. But first an explanation.

The title of this blog may be a little misleading. No I am not talking about your pocket rocket, skin flute, general and two colonels, ol' one-eye willy, lady boner, tallywhacker,  purple headed warrior or any other colorful name you or your partner may have named your trouser snake.

I am talking about the love muscle that both men and women have that is your Pubococcygeus or PC Muscle.

This is a hammock-like muscle that stretches from the pubic bone to the coccyx or tailbone forming the floor of the pelvic cavity supporting all your pelvic organs.

The reason I am addressing this is because this week alone I have been plagued by questions regarding this issue for both men and women alike. And the answer is a very simple exercise that no one seems to be doing.

Men.. do you want to know how to last longer in bed? Control premature urges? All while helping your overall prostate health?

Women.. do you want a fuller feeling? A tighter fit? Quit leaking urine at every little sneeze or outburst of laughter?

THEN WELCOME TO BOOT CAMP FOR YOUR LOVE MUSCLE!

Today we are going focus on those flabby, ill defined PC muscles by doing Kegel Exercises! That's right DROP AND GIVE ME 20 MAGGOT!  Sorry.. went a little overboard there. 

This simple exercise that can literally be done ANYWHERE unnoticed, I may add, and will do all those things I mentioned and so much more. 

Ladies.. We all know that a tight vagina is worth it's weight in gold! Not only for your partners but for yourself! Being able to pick up quarters off the floor without using your hands isn't just a parlor trick for some women. It is because of this exercise they keep it in shape. Even after giving birth. These exercises are proven to do just that. You can even add Ben Wah balls to the mix after you have strengthened them a bit. 

If you try to add these weights when first starting out and have not at least attempted doing these exercises for warm up reasons you may want to do that first or you may have issues with them just plopping out at the most inconvenient of times.

If and when you incorporate these balls into your routine I suggest using them 3 times a week in between normal work outs and when inserting remember you must hold them there. You don't just place them there and think they are going to stick. They are designed to help build the muscle.. not do it for you. That would be like going to the gym and looking at the weights and expecting them to pick themselves up and expect to get results.

I have had some women question whether or not they will come out or get lost in your vagina. 

Ladies.. your vagina is an enclosed space it is more likely that you're too tense about the entire scene and your muscles are making them stay there. If this happens just go to the bathroom and sit on the throne and push like your having a bowel movement. Stick a finger up there and when you feel it hook your finger around it and pull it out. It does not require a trip to the ER. If you are that paranoid that this is going to happen try sticking the balls into a condom before inserting that way you can pull them out.

Once you start working this muscle you will have a much more better sense of everything going on down there when you are having sex and the orgasms are...

Now onto the men.. yes I'm talking to you. This exercise don't just benefit women! It benefits you as well. As a giver not just a receiver.

Do you want to have stronger longer lasting erections, create intense orgasms, help shorten the recovery time between orgams and even get a healthier prostate? If you said no to all these things..

Of my house especially!

Guys sorry to say you don't have cool ben wah balls like us women do but there are a few things you can add to the mix for resistance such as a wet towel if you have some length to your Jewels and if you are not as endowed as others you can different sized rubber balls. 

I will explain all the equipment as I explain the exercise. 

Kegel exercise 101: Locating the PC muscle

For both men and women the easiest and quickest way to locate and isolate your PC muscle is to go to the bathroom. Start a flow of urine and then mid stream stop it. Feel that?! That is our PC muscle. If you cannot stop the flow of urine well then you REALLLY need to work that sucker.

Men... if you can't stop the flow of urine to locate your PC muscle.

Find out where you stand. Start out by doing 10 to 20 tense and relax. If your PC muscle gets tired after 20 of these you are really out of shape. Once you have an exhaust point relax for awhile and when continuing try to tense and hold for about 5 seconds then relax for 5 then again doing 5 of these types of reps. 

After you get comfortable with doing these types of exercises you can increase by tensing and relaxing at a steady pace for a good 30 then rest for 30 seconds and do 2 more sets. 

When I first discovered this a very long time ago after the birth of my first son I will tell you that this muscle just like any other will be a little tender and sore via a little crampy when starting out. Especially when you first start. But remember no pain no gain... RIGHT?

Once you get up to doing 100 or more in a day is when you can incorporate Ben wah balls for women and a wet towel or rubber balls for men for added resistance.

And as always there is an APP for that! It is called Kegel Camp. For 1.99 you can purchase an app that will help you perform these tasks and even remind you to do them. 

Men are not from mars, nor Women from Venus

Driving into work a couple weeks back I heard that a Marine killed two other Marines here at Quantico Marine Corp Base. Which is right down the road from where I live. And when I say "down the road" I mean a good 45 min with good traffic flow. Anyhoodle. When I heard this the first thing that came to mind was "It had to be about a woman." Sure enough "A relationship dispute" was the underlying cause.

I was reading an article in the Associated Press, Journal of Marital and Family therapy from 2012 that said the Percentage of women who ADMITTED to committing infidelity in any relationship they've had was 54%!!!! If your not great at math that is over half!
You want to know why? They are no longer happy, feel safe or relaxed around their current partner. So why kill over it? I can only assume that ...

A. This woman had a Magical Pussy ... a Power which brought such untold wondrous life giving love to this man that he could not live without it and didn't think anyone,including her, could either.

A likelier reason, in all seriousness, is because he needed professional medical help with the issues he was facing and could not communicate with anyone what demons he was dealing with. My thoughts and positive energy goes out to all the family and friends of this horrific tragedy. 

It is weird how my first thought was that there was a woman involved before they even announced it and when I read that statistic I immediately started to compartmentalize why these women came to these decisions to cheat. I mean of course me being one and all. Now if you've ever been to one of my demonstrations sometimes, especially when it is a group full of women, I'll ask them to close their eyes. I will then say "No peeking, now I want you to raise your hands if you 'faked an orgasm' within the last month." You would not believe the response I get. I would say on average of 80% of them to raise their hands! After I get them to lower their hands and open their eyes I simply say ...."Ladies for those of you who raised your hands... WHY ARE YOU ENCOURAGING BAD BEHAVIOR?"

If your partner believes what they are doing to you is making you so intense with passion. Getting you to completion each time you have sex. They will do it over and over and over again.. wrong... to get you to that point again. Thus making you unhappy and not at all relaxed and thus you go looking for someone who can and leaving part of the statistics. No I'm not judging. Your reasons for whatever your doing and why you do it is yours and your decision and your choice to live with. Basically...

But if you are just casually dating this partner they are going to think whatever it is they were doing for you was so amazing that they will continue this "technique" on others only to leave them greatly disappointed.This is when it becomes personal because these seem to be the ones I "bump" into. Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo  Frustrating!

No wonder men are so disillusioned as how to please a woman. They are being lied to 80% of the time. Now I am not saying that women haven't been lied to either. I always wondered why I have never met any women contractors. Probably because we have been lied to about 6 inches all our lives that they perception of 6 inches isn't really 6 inches.

Look I'm not saying that each person is the exact same or each person likes it exactly the same way each time. In fact if you put 100 people in a room and asked them to masturbate each and every one would do it differently. What I am trying to say is communication is key. Contrary to popular belief Men are not from Mars nor Women from Venus. We are all from planet Earth. This is why Romance Enhancement products are essential and helpful in the bedroom. The best way to know what it is your partner likes is to watch them. Watch where she places her hands/fingers and instruments.. how soft or light she touches her clit or how hard or fast she uses her toy. And Guess What Ladies... all of our toys on my website are marked clearly on the outside in ACTUAL inches! Before you know it we will have Lady Contractors!
Vice Versa... watch as he masturbates. Does he focus on the head/shaft or base? What type of lubricant does he prefer? Does he stroke hard or soft? Does he play with his sac or press on his taint with the other hand? Once you have a general knowledge of what is really going on you won't have to lie about having an orgasm. I also guarantee you if you feel comfortable and safe enough to masturbate in front  of your partner you will let go enough to get off as well.

I hope this rant has helped you look at things from both sides and remember a lie is no good for anyone! Unless of course it is to lie next to your partner :)

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